SO you are looking for a coach?

Congrats! On this page you can find more information about the way I like to approach it. My name is Oscar Westra van Holthe. I am a systemic coach and I facilitate family constellations.

LET'S DO a coaching trajectory

You are worth it to to become who you are. You can book a trajectory individually, but also together, e.g. as a couple, family, friends group, or with your business & stakeholder team.

session 1 Table Constellation

With play-mobil we quickly visualize the life story you tell yourself. This is how you get the big picture until now.

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  • What is your life's story?
  • What pattern comes back?
  • What is your life's theme?
  • What is your key question?
  • What is your "big life task"?



session 2 Internal Landscape Map

With A4s on the ground, we map your innermost experience. What emotional shortcuts do you take?

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  • When does your mind speak?
  • What belongs to you/others?
  • Who are you without ballast?
  • What does "belong to you"?
  • What is it you are noticing?


session 3 Group Constellations Evening

You are now well prepared to have a group resonate with your inner world. What does "your mirror" reflect back?

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  • What is it that you relate to?
  • What is new information?
  • What sticks/touches you?
  • Can you surrender to it?
  • What needs to still sink in?


ARE YOU constantly triggered?

In addition to the coaching trajectory, it is possible to book my "trigger session". I am doing this with couples, colleagues, and people who are in a fight. It does not necessarily solve it all, however, it does take most of the tension away. Sometimes we just need to learn "being reasonable about our our being un-reasonable", right? The session helps you to take full responsibility for the part of the tension from your past. It can also be booked individually.

VISIT one of my open evenings

Experience me as a coach, get to know systemic facilitation, and learn more about yourself.

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You can't wait to get started? E-mail me your phone number at or call me directly at +31 (0) 616261381. I am looking forward towards (really) meeting you.