WHY coaching may be for you
Because you are worth it to be listened to. Besides, your perspective counts for all of us.
Oscar's way of facilitation is like a shell. With his key insights and silence, he lets you hear and listen to your own music. It's well worth your time spent. Recommended.
Bianca Bernecker, Global Ethics Manager TNT/FedEx
WHY choose to work with me?
It is my sincerest wish to authentically connect with wherever you are in this moment.
Oscar combines his playful enthusiasm with patience and openness. This is how he creates a setting that invites for critical self-reflection. Oscar has helped me walk new, adventurous paths into both my professional career and my creative work life.
Igor Bogaert, manager logistics Brocacef and opera singer
WHAT are you most welcome with?
Anything goes. The more heavy, vague, or complex your issue, the more worthwhile it is.
It was the evening after Oscar's coaching session that I finally slept well again, which was a long time ago! I was deeply impressed with the bigger perspective. Seeing this being formed in front of my eyes, I could see the patterns, themes, and dynamics coming back, and how these are passed on from generation to generation, also by me as a mother. Oscar's questions helped me unexpectedly connect my past with my life today.
Sandra Meijers, study, job- en lifecoach
WHAT can you expect?
I am working one on one, with teams, departments, but also with global institutions.
A constellation asks you to take in a position. The play-mobil figures put down are like a mirror: it all came together. Within a disarming, equitable atmosphere, I discovered something I already knew but had not yet put into action. This way of exploration is different from someone “telling you what to do”, something you already knew. For me, a field of creative destruction opened itself; and a new reality could unfold itself.
Peter Creemers, innovation strategist, a.o. with Achmea and P2
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Experience me as a coach, get to know systemic facilitation, and learn more about yourself.
It’s special how Oscar can make a room full of “strangers” grow close to each other. Nothing goes unnoticed with him. Due to him I finally have the words for what I already knew. Besides, I can now also share it in a way that my colleagues can hear it as well.
Janneke (original name different), working at a Dutch insurance company
Oscar has helped me break through this emotional barrier I felt about actually fully living my passion. For a long time I’ve circled around my ideas. Now they are alive though. I have created my own job at work. Besides, I’ve started my own therapy practice. In addition, I've integrated my longing for my twin sister as well as my thinking into the person that I am today. Keywords for Oscar's style of working are: respect, no-nonsense, and revealing. With him you can go for what it is that you really want.
Tanja van Dongen, vitality coach 's Heeren Loo and professional therapist with her own practice
ARE YOU constantly triggered?
Individually, in pairs, or in groups, I take your tension away so that a new start is possible.
If “moving along with what is” would be an art form, Oscar would be your example. A dialogue with him you experience as a very open conversation with depth, and where appropriate, mixed with humor. Nothing is off-topic – it’s what Oscar is very precise at.
Michiel Kuijpers, owner and consultant at FreeQ
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Oscar is warm, present, and tuned into you. He resonates deeply with the systemic (family) field. His quirks and his inner child make it fun to work with him. In his own search for integration of his adult and child selves, he helps you see your deepest blindspots. With him you face your family past as well as all your present relations.
Jacqueline de Vries, family and organisational constellator Lichtcentrum Amsterdam
Oscar combines his intelligent sharpness with an intuition to know where the personal and group process move towards. Wisdom and humor are Oscar's main ingredients. Intermixed, they both function as triggers for deeper self-reflection and insight.
Niels Koldewijn, director Elos Foundation and social entrepreneur with Fair Ground
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My clients work in the for and non-profit sector, in government, and branchwide coalitions.
In the days and weeks after working with Oscar, you unpack the experience, as if these are presents. You find out what it is you feel yourself, what belongs to another person, and what it is you project upon another person. All that, without over-intellectualisation. You learn to trust upon the ever-present interconnectedness, both at home and at work.
Jacqueline Hart, area manager Johnson & Johnson Medical
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Call me at +31(0) 616261381 or send me an e-mail at firstname.lastname@example.org.